750. Guests were also honored by being seated at the right of the host during the meals. The next highest place was at the left of the host. Jesus condemned the pharisees for their insistence on having the highest places of distinction when they were invited to a banquet.
751. Dancing was often part of the entertainment at feasts. When the prodigal son returned home, there was music and dancing (Luke 15:24-25). Mainly the women and girls danced, although sometimes men did too, as David did when the ark was brought into Jerusalem (2 Sam. 6:14). But there is no Scriptural record that Jewish men danced with the women.
752. Sharing hospitality with others was an integral part of Israelite life. Men of the East believed guests were sent by God. Therefore providing for their hospitality became a sacred duty. When Abraham entertained three strangers who proved to be angels, his enthusiasm seemed to indicate this same belief (Gen. 18:2-7). We typically think of guests as friends or business acquaintances. But in the East there are three types of guests: friends, strangers, and enemies.
753. Strangers as guests. An old Eastern proverb says, "Every stranger is an invited guest." Like Abraham, the Bedouin Arab of today will sit in the entrance of his tent in order to be on the watch for a stranger and guest (Gen. 18:1). In the New Testament, when Paul taught the Roman believers to be "given to hospitality" (Rom. 12:13 KJV), he was referring to the same thing. The Greek word he used for hospitality is pronounced :fil-ox-en-ee-ah," which means "love to strangers."
754. Enemies as guests. One remarkable aspect of Eastern hospitality is that an enemy can be received as a guest. As long as he remains in that relationship, he is perfectly safe and is treated as a friend. Certain tribes of tent-dwellers live by the rule that an enemy who has "once dismounted and touched the rope of a single tent is safe."
